Take care of yourself. When your partner have decided to let go of the relationship, don’t make your life miserable but instead go improve yourself even more for your partner to be able to see that you can actually live a happy and fulfilling life without his or her company. Have a clear mind set over the things that you wanted to do and not to do, and follow them. Remember that life is always beautiful, and don’t take this for granted just because some unimportant person leaves you.
Choose the most appropriate time to talk. To discuss with your partner about the issue is really important since it concerns both of your feelings but there is a proper time for this and that is the time wherein all your heads are clear from angriness and is ready for some serious talking. Let your partner realize that you will be actually experience that any of you will get mad and just walk away from the relationship like that easy. An angry person can do just about anything when angry and with a great understanding and patience is needed in times like these.
Set limits. Approach your partner that you won’t be attending any occasion together, especially family activities like going to parties, or dinners if he or she still behaves that way and if you have plans on going, than you’ll just be going alone. Let your partner feel that the situation is doing no good to your relationship and it should be stopped as soon as possible before things get to its worst part. Don’t pursue your partner to do this all over again, and let her or him feel that it has no effect to you at all and that you can manage to go on with your daily plans even though he or she is behaving that way.
Make the first move. It is quite impossible for a partner who has withdrawn to initiate things on reconciliation. When the time you set passes by and he or she still didn’t make a move, then it is time for you to do it your way and stop waiting vainly for nothing. Set up something romantic wherein you will just sit there and talk over the matter without any hassle of putting him into the hot seat. Just make a casual talk of what is the reason behind why he or she acted that way. Let your partner feel that you understand the situation and very well, and your there to make amends. By showing deep concern and sincerity makes you get the love back from your withdrawn partner.
Show your affection. Sometimes, actions are a lot better than words especially when you have problems with your partner. Don’t be afraid to let him or her shows how much you love, care, and value the relationship so must. In that way, your partner will be able to realize how lucky he or she is to have you and everything will just fall into places where it should be.
In situations like this, a great understanding is important when your partner behaves this way. You should also have the right attitude to be sensible and mature since you are the one who has full control over the situation. Find out what’s the root cause of his behavior so that you will know what type of approach to make. Never take the power of love for granted, let the love you feel fix the problem because there is no bigger cure for this but an ounce of pure love to a blissful relationship.
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